The Power of the Tongue

The analogies here indicate that we must not underestimate the power of our tongue. Just as small bits can make horses obey, a small rudder can steer large ships, and a small spark can set a great forest on fire, our tiny tongue can corrupt/defile the whole body and destroy lives (ours and others').

The tongue is truly powerful. It can be used for good or for evil. Relationships are built up or destroyed by what we say. Mean words, careless words, and/or untrue words have wrecked many families, divided the Body of Christ, and led many people to shame and despair. We should look for opportunities to encourage, edify, and bless one another with our words. Speak the truth in love with grace, respect, kindness, and gentleness. Quit complaining, criticizing, cursing, boasting, lying, exaggerating, insulting, yelling (in anger), nagging, manipulating, gossiping, slandering, and hurting others with words. In our families, let's speak loving words of encouragement, appreciation, and affection to our husbands and children. Words are powerful tools that can be used to build people up or tear people down. Let's use them wisely and for God's glory! 

"The tongue of the wise commends knowledge, but the mouth of the fool gushes folly." (Proverbs 15:2)
"The tongue that brings healing is a tree of life, but a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit." (Proverbs 15:4)
"Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones." (Proverbs 16:24)

"When I want to speak...let me think first:
-Is it true?
-Is it kind?
-Is it necessary?
If not, let it be left unsaid." (Babcock)

Prayer: Dear Heavenly Father, You know how much I struggle with my tongue/words. Please fill me with Your Holy Spirit so that I can speak kind and loving words to all. Please give me patience, grace, humility, gentleness, and thoughtfulness to bless others and show Your love with my words even when the kindness is not appreciated and/or not returned. Please grant me wisdom to know when to speak and when to keep silent. Please help me speak only words that edify and encourage others, bring hope and healing, and glorify Your Name. In Jesus' Name, I pray. Amen.