Gossip

"A gossip betrays a confidence; so avoid anyone who talks too much." (Proverbs 20:19 NIV)

"He who goes about as a talebearer reveals secrets; therefore, do not associate with on who flatters with his lips." (Proverbs 20:19 NKJV)

A gossip is an idle talk or rumor, especially about the personal or private affairs of others (definition from dictionary.com). A gossip includes telling others what someone has told you in private (revealing secrets) and making statements that defame someone's character and reputation (slandering/backbiting). A gossip betrays trust and destroys friendship. Listening to gossip is just as bad as spreading gossip. "Anyone who will gossip to you, will gossip about you." (Unknown) Gossip is sin; it's unkind and unloving. We are to avoid anyone who talks too much, flatters with his/her lips, and/or cannot keep secrets because they are insincere and not trustworthy. We are not to mingle with talebearers, babblers, and flatterers. They are a danger to us. "A lying tongue hates those it hurts, and a flattering mouth works ruin." (Proverbs 26:28) "Those who flatter their neighbors are spreading nets for their feet." (Proverbs 29:5) Let's also make sure that we ourselves guard our tongue and don't become talebearers, babblers, and flatterers. Let's make it a habit to walk away from gossip and from conversations that aim to tear others down. 
"Gossip is saying behind their back what you would not say to their face. Flattery is saying to their face what you would not say behind their back." (Unknown)
 
Prayer: Abba Father, please help me not to gossip and not to listen to gossip. I want to be a trustworthy person whom others can confide in and feel safe. Please enable me to guard my tongue. In Jesus' Name, I pray. Amen.