Showing posts with label couples. Show all posts
Showing posts with label couples. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Book Review: Love & War Devotional for Couples by John & Stasi Eldredge

Love & War Devotional for Couples is the 8-week devotional for couples based on John & Stasi Eldredge's book, Love & War: Finding the Marriage You've Dreamed Of. You can read my review of that book here. If you've read Love & War, you will find the content in this devotional familiar. It's the concise version with the addition of a prayer at the end of each day's reading and an exercise at the end of each week's readings. Also, each reading starts and ends with Scriptures. This devotional can be read together as a couple or read individually. The authors offer bite-sized nuggets of wisdom to help readers grow in their relationship with God and with his/her spouse. John and Stasi Eldredge tell you upfront that marriage is hard and that we live in a love story set in the midst of a war (not against our spouse but against the devil). However, don't lose heart; God is here to help you and your spouse fight for a fulfilled marriage that glorifies Him. I enjoyed reading this devotional even though I already read the book Love & War because it's good to be reminded again of all the important stuff in marriage by focusing on Scripture. I especially loved the prayers; they're from the heart and to the point.

"A tangible way to love our spouses is to encourage them to spend time in the Word. Spend time in prayer. Seek God. He alone is the source of true life and happiness." (p. 47)

"Pressed to choose our 'top three things that would most help your marriage,' we would come down to this list: 1) find life in God, 2) deal with your brokenness, and 3) learn to shut down the spiritual warfare that comes against your marriage." (p. 76)

- Click here to download chapter one of Love and War Devotional for Couples .
- You can purchase the book here or here.
- Visit the authors' website at http://www.ransomedheart.com/ .
- You can join their social networking site at http://ransomedheart.net/main/ .

~I received this book for free from WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing Group for this review.

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Start Marriage Right


I love weddings. Such joyous celebrations of love and commitment! On the contrary, I hate divorces. Such ugly, painful, messy, & unwise decisions! My parents are divorced. My husband's parents are divorced. His aunts, brother, and sister are divorced. Marriage is designed by God and is meant for a lifetime. I am thankful that the Lord has brought my husband and me together and has kept us together for almost 20 years so far. He has truly blessed us and our marriage. A Christ-centered, God-honoring marriage is the best and is powerful for furthering God's kingdom but it takes hard work because satan is right there to attack it. I am excited to share with you a wonderful free website that provides valuable resources for couples to strengthen their marriage: http://www.startmarriageright.com/ . The website's goal is to equip, guide, and prepare people for successful, lifelong marriages and to decrease/prevent failed marriages. It's especially useful for singles, dating and engaged couples, and newlyweds but I think even oldieweds will benefit from it, too. I enjoyed reading the articles which offer Biblically sound, practical advice. Here are a few examples: 5 Essential Traits for a Strong and Lasting MarriageComplementing, Not Conflicting, in Marriage, Why Sharing Hopes and Hurts Strengthen the Home. I also like the feature that people can submit their own question(s) by using the form on the website.

The website includes:
  • Interesting articles about various issues all couples face as they enter into marriage
  • Q & A with Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The 5 Love Languages.
  • Insightful interviews with relationship experts
  • Blog
  • Fun and insightful videos
  • Links to practical resources from marriage counseling experts
  • and more!
Check out http://www.startmarriageright.com/ and spread the word. Please let your pastors and/or your church's marriage/family ministry leaders know about this website. Let us all help new couples start their marriage right! 

Website: http://www.startmarriageright.com/
Blog: http://www.startmarriageright.com/category/blog/
FACEBOOK: http://www.facebook.com/StartMarriageRight
TWITTER: http://twitter.com/startmarriage



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